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Premarital Counseling – Session 2 – Exercise 1

Exercise 1: Elements for a successful marriage

We all want a happy marriage. For us happy marriage is based on different concept. On this sheet are many words relating to concepts that you may or may not want in your marriage.

1. Select 5 things that you feel are most important for a happy and healthy marriage and number them from 1 – 5 (Lowest number being the most important)  

 

1. Select 5 additional things that you wish to see in your spouse and number them from 6 – 10 (again lowest being the most important). They could be the same or different things

 

1. Select 5 additional things that you think your future spouse wish to see in you and number them from 11 – 15 (again lowest being the most important and again they could be the same as above or different.

P.S. if you don’t see the thing in the list please write in the empty space below

 

1. What is your vision of a happy home? Name three most important things in a happy home

 

1. What are three things that you see as a challenge to the future married life?

 

 

Communication	Humor	Feelings	Money
Listening	Excitement	Privacy	Exercise
Faith	Resilience	Food	Growth
Trust	Companionship	Patience	Family
Sports	Commitment	Creativity	Health
Organization	Togetherness	Clothes	Appearance
Prayer	Vacation	Successful life	Entertainment
Career	In-laws	Children	Love
Flexibility	Confidence	Intimacy	Wealth
Compassion	Latest vehicles	House	Closeness
Determination	Adventure	Sacrifice	Friends
Television	Energy	Happiness	Sex
Mosque	Learning	Respect	Honesty
Parties	Travel	Reunions	Politics

Please add other words important to you in the empty space above.