Premarital Counseling – Session 3 – Exercises

Premarital Counseling – Session 3 – Exercises

  1. Read and internalize among both your understanding of the verse 4:34 from surah Nisa 

الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنْفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ ۚ فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ حَافِظَاتٌ لِلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ ۚ وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا {34}

[Sura An-Nisa 4:34] Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).

       2. – Read and discuss among yourself Case study #A1 http://www.rahmaa.org/case-studies/communications/case-study-1-effective-versus-productive-communication/ 

 

                 and Case Study # B2 http://www.rahmaa.org/case-studies/trust/case-study-6-marital-interference/

                prior to the session

       3. Be prepared to discuss marital issues based on your personal, family or friends experience.

       4. What you think are responsibilities and obligations of the husband and wife in Islam?

       5. What are some of the important things that husband should know about wife? and

       6. What are some of the important things that wife should know about husband? 

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